Does people sometimes point fingers at you and start comparing you with another?
Do you sometimes look at yourself and start thinking why am I not her?
Yes it happens. All the time and the feeling is sucky. Everyone strive to be perfect but no one can be perfect. Not a single soul. It depress me sometimes to know that its a human nature to wanna compare or want their partners to be like another. Many couples broke up because someone else better came along. The true fact is there will always be someone better. Everyone wants a perfect man/woman but where the fuck can anyone find anyone that is perfect. Sorry no chance.
It also kinda sadden me to see many breakups are due to such. This does not neccessary applies to a boy/girl relationship. Even with friendship, whether or not its best friend, good time friends or casual friends... human beings likes to compare. Friendship broke up because they did not accept each other for what their friends are. Being critical about another individual does not help with developing the friendship that may blossom.
Even with individuals, some people starts feeling miserable when they start comparing themselves with the friends around them. Eg. Why does she has a better boyfriend? My view? One man's meat is another man's poison... Stop comparing and start living your life! Live and let live!
The world will have lesser breakups, lesser fights, lesser suicides if human would just be contented and live the life god has laid for them, accept your love one the way they are, accept the fact you are not "her" or "him" and be happy the way you. I know its hard for many as we are all human. I am too. I decide to write this post because I want to remind myself to accept what I am.
Leaving you with the song by Simple Plan - Perfect. :)
P.S. Stop comparing and start accepting.. Love her for what she is cos no one is perfect! xoxo
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