The Valentine's Day! Yet another day of stressed for the unwilling male and another day of wishful thinking for the willing female? Or maybe... a romantic day for the most willing couple? So to celebrate this day of love or not to? To give flowers that is 3 times more expensive than on any other day? To go out for expensive dinner that is might also be 3 times more expensive than another other day.
My boyfriend is a Dutchman, naturally, he is not into valentine. I even had to remind him first thing in the morning : "Hey its valentine's!" He replied : "Oh yeah... Happy Valentine's Love!" My reply : "How can I be happy when my valentine's is not around? Just have a good day love!" He said: "Thanks love! You are my valentine!! xx"
My boyfriend is a Dutchman, naturally, he is not into valentine. I even had to remind him first thing in the morning : "Hey its valentine's!" He replied : "Oh yeah... Happy Valentine's Love!" My reply : "How can I be happy when my valentine's is not around? Just have a good day love!" He said: "Thanks love! You are my valentine!! xx"
And that was it... Valentine's day for me.. And then he was busy the whole time with work. I never spoke to him... not even a phone call from him. Ask me if I am happy? I am... this is good enough for me. I really wasn't expecting anything anyway. Anything more would possibly be a bonus but I know its not going to happen. Not with my dutch farmerboy! :)
Everyone's expectation of a romantic valentine's day differs. One can be happy with 1 stalk of rose and home cooked dinner and another wants a candlelight dinner with 999 stalks of roses. But things gets really touchy when without realizing it, friends began comparing among one another, mainly among girls.
But really, so does it means we only celebrate valentine's day. Be sweet to one another on only 1 specific day? Surely it's good to be able to celebrate V Day and also be sweet to one another every other day. But look... there is no 2 way about it, even if it there is, it won't last. Maybe 1 percent might have both till death do them part but reality? No!
So if I am given a choice... I prefer for my boyfriend to be sweet to me every other day, I don't need flowers, fancy dinners or expensive gifts. All I need is for him to be there for me. Just that! Its not hard for most.. but its very difficult for mine relationship.. because my love is so freaking far from me!
To everyone that is attached with someone.... Happy Valentine's Day
To all the Single and Available..... Be Happy being Single! Let's Partyyyyyyyyyy!!! =))
Loves all~
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