Judgmental or Criticism... a human way of life?

Sometimes I wish people sees me the way I sees myself. But clearly, that isn't possible.
Sometimes, I wish people would stop pointing fingers at others and judge when clearly they aren't in the same situation as the other. And clearly, this isn't possible.
Sometimes, I wish people would be less critical about themselves and others as no on is perfect. Yet again, this isn't possible.
Sometimes, I wish for people to not see things in a tunnel vision as there are always many factors that affect a decision or action. And there again, this isn't possible.

I say this not because I think I don't judge, criticize or point fingers. I do, many times. And I believe everyone does at some point of time. Everyone has their own judgement and thoughts which is why human-beings never agree. Which is why there are people that just don't get along. Which is also why there are arguments and fight that might even end up in break ups of sort in love relationship, friendship, kinship or any other relations. And that is the way of life.

But if human-beings would be a little gracious, a little forgiving, a little understanding, a little kindness and a little less critical that would make life less strenuous. We all fight each day to control our emotions, to fight the thoughts of the most dangerous organs of our body - the mind. And having to face the criticism and negative opinion of others doesn't help.

I am gonna constantly remind myself, to each its own, we will never understand.

P.S. In 21 days!