Curly Hair Babies

Last night Chris and me were discussing about babies. To me, babies of any kind are cute to me. Simple reason, they are babies! Babies are suppose to be cute. Straight Hair or Curly Hair, Brown Eyes or Blue, Dark Skin or Fair Skin, I love them all.

But to Chris, She hates curly hair babies of which I cannot understand. She thinks curly hair babies are really not cute and just a total turn off. The funny part is, she is adamant to re-bond her baby hair if it turn out to be curly!! I cannot stop laughing at her critics about babies or kids with curly hair. Its funny but yet I think that too critical.

Good gracious!! Crazy Mummy and poor child! I'd thought of blogging about this because I wonder... If appearance is so important to a mother what's more to the public? So yes, appearance is indeed important but we can beautify ourselves to the way we want to when we grow up. To re-bond or live with the natural curls!

Anyway, I decide to compare between curly and straight hair babies. Now, check this... curly hair babies are indeed cuter... at least I feel! :)

Super Straight Hair..

Straight & Black - Cutie!

Straight & Blondie! Sweet!

But now check the curly ones........................................... I think they are just awesome and so special!!!!

Alittle messy.. this one. But with a little combing.. still cute! :)

This is totally a wake up hairdo! Cute to the max!

Now check this last one... Angel!

Just a very random post to compare babies with straight or curly hair. To me .... as long as they are babies, they are an angel! :D

P.S. Nothing to PS about!!

Love Strucked!

Its been 4 weeks, yes only 4 weeks since the last we part and really it feels like 4 years!! Everyday past by and I would feel lost, sometimes I even feel like I have lose him because I don't feel him anymore. Time difference did't help because by the time he finishes work... its time I sleep. So you can imagine, we only text on BBM or Whatsapp when he has a breather from work. I don't wanna see him next and feel like a total stranger! Its so hard.... so depressing... until when we start doing video-conferencing on Skype!

Suddenly I appreciate skype being invented. Its totally Free and you can see each other.. Will there ever be a time when you can reach out your hands and start touching each other? Sounds awesome won't it? But to think of it... it also feels like you are visiting someone in jail or something. This is not good! I don't really know what I am rambling about but I do know that I just skype with the love of my life for the 5 time since last week and am feeling really good!

Even seeing him on video feels good. Its strange because you feel like you are reunited once again! It's amazing how two grown up adults can behave like love-strucked teenagers unknowingly especially when you become depesrate to be with each other.

Nothing changed.... each time I sees him or hear him... or even see his bbm message on my blackberry... I fall in love once again!

We both realise not being together is not the life we wanted, we both know we need to live our lives together really soon. And maybe.... I might be the one living in Holland since now I have already got a job offer! Its a big step I know but we are both desperate!

Can't wait for the romantic 5 weeks together again!

P.S. Sorry I am not as patience as you are! X

My New Friends with the same fate as me!

Just returned from the clinic with an official medical certificate. Yes! I am unfit for work today! I just swallowed the awful medication and waiting to knock out... I decide I should do abit of blogging of what's currently on my mind.

I've been thinking alot about the new friends that I recently met through the dutch language course that I have been attending. There is more than 5 of such friends with the same fate but I have gotten specifically closer to 5 of them. Its sets me thinking about how their long distances relationship works when they meet their partner less than two time in less than a year and a half and what's more .... one of them is even married to her dutch hubby after just 2 meetings. I cannot believe and surely cannot comprehend. All I could agree is love moves any mountain so I guess theirs must be love. I am just going to go through how each of them met and fall in love with their partners:

Lady I - A pretty dark skin turkish lady met her dutch husband during her holiday in Japan in a hotel lobby. And their love life blossom from there. Long distance for a year and a half and got married. Now happily married, living in a rented (SGD8k per month) apartment in the heart of Orchard Road. Lady I isnt working... she is not required to work.

(I've met with Lady I's husband and find him a really nice guy who love Asia so much he hates Holland. Strange! Because I love Holland, I can imagine myself living in Holland.)

Lady J - A plump & cute Singaporean lady who met her dutch boyfriend over a online gaming experience. And finally met in Holland when Lady J decides to visit Europe for holiday. Her first trip to Holland and they fell in love. Together for 3 weeks and Lady J left the country. Both continue to stay in touch and in love. Her dutch boyfriend just visited Singapore in April for 3 weeks. And that was it..... met twice, 3 weeks each time and lasted 1.5 years!

Lady XY - A skinny with super curly short hair Singaporean lady who also met her Dutch Husband over an internet chat room. Met twice over 1.5 years for 6 months and now married, waiting to be back in Holland with her man. Lady XY is only 22 which her dutch husband is 25!

Lady K - A short & Studios Singaporean Lady who met her dutch boyfriend online jsut 2 months ago and fell in love online. Till date, have not met. keep their relationship going via online web cam and chat. She is 23!

Lady OL - A skinny & Tall Singaporean lady. Married with a dutch man now with a daugther! Bliss..!

Having my mind full of my new found friends, I keep wondering how so can a LDR like theirs works. Because even with mine, I seen Jos every 2 months but even then I find it so hard to maintain. Sometimes I only wish I have more faith or is it because I am just too realistic?

Whatever it is... I'll hang on and maybe one day I will see light!